Friends Been To Uni - Still None The Wiser

Lynibis ive got a friend whos been going out to parties and bbq during lockdown then speaks to me like poo when i tell her not too. She says going to a house full of people during lockdown is perfectly fine as shes following government advice. Then she tells me ive been a bad friend due to telling her not to go to events like this. Sorry for the rant, am i wrong to be worried about her during lockdown.

chelseaturpin not sure I would expend emotion on a friend who thinks I am a bad friend for pointing out her stupid behaviour. I don't remember government telling us it is ok to go socialising into a house full of people. I hope she doesn't live with elderly or compromised relatives.

Lynibis she lives with her mum, step dad and little brother. I couldnt find anything on government website saying it was ok but she said it was deffo there and that i was stupid and blind as she was only person that ever saw it.

chelseaturpin I think you shouldn't waste your time but don't get close to her. It is really up to her parents to put her straight even though she is supposedly an adult.

Lynibis easier said than done though ive tried keeping my distance but she good at manipulating me back to her. Shes also told all her friends false aligations that im bipolar and that i bully/abuse her, she was quick to stop it when i screen shot all the bad stuff she had said about her 'friends' and threaten to send it to them.

chelseaturpin sorry darling but I have to say this does not sound like a friendship and with friends like that you don't need enemies. Any friend who threatens, bullies or cajoles is not a friend and should be put aside.

Lynibis well said. She doesn’t sound to me like a very good friend.