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Is Watching Explicit Video is Consider Cheating.

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It is consider ' cheating' in a married couple? When husband is watching explicit videos and paying for it without wife knowing? And have found out shown in bank details. But husband said he did not cheat. ( just answer cheat or not cheat as only watching)

alenaleigh0312
over a year ago
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Lynibis

Can't answer cheat or not cheat, it is far more complicated than that. I think the deceit would upset me but a lot of women do not like it when hubbies do this. I think it is one of the ills of our age as it can be an addiction just like any other. But then again men (more so than women) have done it in various forms throughout the ages so......................

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ZillaFrith

I’d be more angry that he’d “paid” for it....plenty of free stuff out there.

Personally it wouldn’t bother me but I guess everyones thoughts differ on cheating x

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alenaleigh0312

We cannot say this is cheating or not but i got an answer from a psychologists about this matter and why till now, a lot caught husbands say i don't cheat just watch.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201610/cheating-it-was-just-webcam

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PhilipMarc

You mean paying for pr0n? Who does that.

No, but it can somewhat be if he finds another woman attractive then it could end in having second thoughts about the marriage.

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Auntielettie

Just because you look at the desert trolley does not mean you cheated on your diet. Same rule applies here I think.

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lindseymw

Love that reply!

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Lynibis

Sweet trolleys are real and a normal part of life. Porn is not normal and creates an illusion, especially for men, that they believe is how it should be. Gives them an unrealistic view of women and how they should be. Also cheapens women in their eyes and the ones who are unstable can sometimes turn to sexual abuse or even rape.

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lindseymw

I dont think it counts as cheating. I would prefer if he told me instead of sneaking about.

Some couples watch it together.

Not my cup of tea to be honest but each to their own.

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alenaleigh0312

It depends how it affects to a married couples. One friend of mine found out her husband is 700£ within 6 mos. As she printed 6 mos. Bank details for her visa application but that what she discovered. Her husband apparently said he don't cheated on her. But my friend got broke as they have 2 kids and that money is abig help for them. But she was shocked to know that her husband always short of money. And always bothered why. Now she knew the reasons. She is confused and ask advice from friends. She felt cheated which is normal to feel. Now what i can say, cheated or not cheated. This is still a serious issue to be resolved as it involves and affects your family budget.

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MrsCraig

I think that the money aspect of it is a bigger issue. The fact that he was hiding it, that there was never enough money, is also a betrayal. It depends on the couple as to whether it is considered cheating. To feel cheated is a totally different thing.

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