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Brianna Ghey's mum wants social media ban for kids amid killer's 'dark web' use www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/brianna-gheys-mum-wants-kids-32041768

Kids seem to have unlimited access to networking and social media , I’m not sure if it’s a good thing all the time . Whilst the above case is extreme , do you think it’s right to ban under 16s from social media apps???

Aenurse1
3 months ago
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Leannexxx

This would never happen because it can't be controlled it's so easy for kids to get online don't get me wrong it would be a good idea but it's not realistic

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Aenurse1

Leannexxx true would be very hard to stop them a lot of teenagers more tech savvy than there parents

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Leannexxx

Aenurse1 well I'm a strict parent and my oldest hasn't got any social media even tho she wants it , it's a no

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lilyflower

I'll never happen especially when parents of children actually set up the social media accounts for them with fake DoB etc on the smartphone that they also bought. Partners 7 year old Grandson has all this and even with age restricted limits he gets round them.

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Aenurse1

lilyflower agree even 7 years they know how to use

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RnD194hd

Personally think it's looking for an easy solution to a complex situation. James Bulger killers did what they did pre social media n wide internet use.

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Aenurse1

RnD194hd true

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martinlufc5637

You cant stop teenagers, they will always find a away, my youngest kids are not allowed Facebook, tick tok ect...

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Consumer

Yes, but it's too late in the game to try and enforce a ban. Definitely not a good thing that they have unlimited access.

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TheChimp

If they were watching horrible stuff on the dark web, I'm sure that they'd be able to bypass any checks/bans that would be put in place

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jms19

The thing with the internet is the younger generations are way better at getting round these things than the technology to enforce it.

Also seems a bit knee jerk

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MelissaLee1

Forbidden fruits always taste the best! If you ban social media it will only increase it's appeal.Just educate youngsters as to the 'dangers' inherent and try to engage them more with real life pursuits.

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didbygraham

Banning sadly wont do any good. Better tools from the social media companies so that bullies etc can be identified and reported would help though.

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Jerseydrew

Yes I agree with her. I work with kids. Mine isn't allowed social media yet. It can be controlled cos parents stupidity allow their kids to have social media when under the age. Give in to pester pressure.

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RnD194hd

Jerseydrew also lazy parenting, allowing your child to sit on social media means you don't have to do anything with them

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Jerseydrew

RnD194hd don't go there. I commented to someone at my local bank who was on about her kid being bullied at primary school and she was over protective. So I said it's worse when they are allowed on social media especially under 13 as its nasty. Mum said it's OK hers was on it and she checks her phone regularly 🤦‍♂️

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suevernon1968

The problem is kids are smart. Anything that is put in place kids will sort out a way to get around it.

Same as some parents allow their-12 and 13 year olds to play quite vicious games on their x boxes or playstations etc. some kids still find it difficult to differentiate between real life and their online fantasy world. Specially if they have peer pressure v

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Lynibis

In a better, caring world , yes. No exceptions, no loopholes and no way around it. But as others say, it can never happen, Pandora's box is well and truly open.

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Pjran

I remember when Facebook started an under 16 couldn’t open an account.

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BonzoBanana

I sort of feel when people are interested in something even if that interest is negative and criminal the internet allows them to find similar people to make their viewpoint normal and justified. I was walking about 10 metres behind a lad of about 20 who had one bag of shopping. He kept looking into people's cars and I could see he was looking to see if the doors were locked. He didn't care if people behind were watching him. I suspect if a door had been unlocked he probably would have waited until there were no other pedestrians and then nicked whatever was inside. Maybe I'm wrong about this person but my point is some people don't seem to be bothered by morality at all and it doesn't take much to put them on the wrong side of the law.

Most kids are fine on the internet but some obviously have little or no morality. Personally I feel I can tell good kids from bad kids fairly easily by their actions, how they speak and their attitude. Some parents are often the worst judges of their own children as they are biased in favour of their own children and are not rational looking at the evidence so they ignore the real signs of what is going wrong. I never wanted to watch sadistic violent horror movies as a kid and still don't as a adult and I'm always wary of those who enjoy that sort of entertainment.

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neilonline

There are already lower age limits on most Social Media apps of around 13 or 14 but its easily by-passed, just like 13 year olds buying Vapes. And the Tech companies can’t deal with Conspiracy Theory lies and Fake News, there’s no way they could control age.

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