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Can a relationship go back to normal if someone has cheated now I know I couldn't forgive as I've cheated on before my friend just found out her husband slept with someone else what would you do?

Leannexxx
a week ago
What do you think of this?
beccatavender
beccatavendera week ago

I think it's down to the individual, I had a friend who forgave her husband for cheating when her kids were young. He cheated again 10 years latter but she couldn't get past it a 2nd time so they divorced.

However in that ten years they were together they appeared to be happy. But it took a lot of communication and also not throwing up their cheating at every argument. They went to Relate.

Another friend was willing to forgive his wife for cheating, but she left him for her new man.

I don't know if I had the strength to be with someone once the trust had gone, but like I said I wouldn't judge anyone for whatever decision they made.

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Leannexxx
Leannexxx
Original Poster
a week ago

beccatavender I've just told her what happened when I was cheated on how I was checking his phone seeing where he was didn't believe anything he said I told she has to do what she wants to do ill be there for her either way

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beccatavender
beccatavendera week ago

I think that's all you can do, it's just so sad when someone cheats and it's difficult not to be bitter and move on. As they damage not only your trust in other people but also your own judgement.

Be strong and try not let this drag you back to that time in your own life Leannexxx

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Leannexxx
Leannexxx
Original Poster
a week ago

beccatavender oh I won't it was the best thing he did for me lol I wouldn't have met the man I'm with now and had my kids

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beccatavender
beccatavendera week ago

I'm really pleased that it worked out so well 🙂@Leannexxx

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