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I was wondering if you share everything with your oh or you keep things for yourself. For instance, you buy something very expensive and you keep it secretly. I know we shouldn't do this in relationships but I guess it is unavoidable

GSM
1 month ago
What do you think of this?
Imnotcheap
Imnotcheap1 month ago

I would answer but my OH is on this site although doesn't often look on chat

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flipside
flipside1 month ago

I’ve learned that keeping things from my partner only results in further mistrust down the line when they eventually find out. So I don‘t keep secrets. I dont go telling them everything but if they ask I‘ll be honest.

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MrsCraig
MrsCraig1 month ago

There are no secrets between my husband and I. I wouldn't buy anything expensive before talking to him first, we have joint finances, so he would find out pretty quickly anyway!

We don't keep secrets from each other, we never have.

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tumblespots
tumblespots1 month ago

I don't think it shows any degree of trust between couples if they keep secrets.

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Ann1984
Ann19841 month ago

Little white lie wont hurt oh knows i love a bargain so most times will say was on bargain box. He’s used to the Amazon man arriving everyday now

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GSM
GSM
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1 month ago

Ann1984 haha sometimes I buy things and I said I got a freebie.

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Moonstone22
Moonstone221 month ago

I am very open with the people around me. But a lot of people trust me with their secrets. And I never tell

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fatimacash
fatimacash1 month ago

No, i am terrible at keeping secrets

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