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Anyone else stand stand mess and dirt?! Haha πŸ˜† just a topic wanted to have a chat πŸ’¬ about! 😬

Went to supermarket yesterday but it started raining 🌧 so much had umbrella β˜”οΈ with me but trainers πŸ‘Ÿ got so damn muddy so had to wipe them clean! πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈ and stuff some paper inside as they got wet too 😠

kitty88uk
2 months ago
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Leannexxx

I was really bad before I had my first daughter then I realised kids will always make a mess no matter what I do 🀣 so I'm not to bad now one thing that I don't deal with tho dirty trainers

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kitty88uk

Leannexxx I see that great! I’m not that ocd but seeing my only pair of trainers like that annoyed me lol

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Leannexxx

kitty88uk lol I'm the same with my kids shoes and trainers a tiny bit of dirty and that's it the wipes come outπŸ˜‚

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kitty88uk

Leannexxx lmao 🀣 haha!! 🀭 I normally don’t clean them unless very dirty! Both had huge patches of mud in black trainers so very visible as they are brown mud lol

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Leannexxx

kitty88uk i couldn't handle that 🀣 you should see me with my converse the sole on them still look brand new even tho I've worn them every day for 4 months lol

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MelissaLee1

I don't have problems with a bit of dirt and dust but I'm a bit obsessive with words and numbers.I invariably do the same sum three times over even though I know that I probably got it right the first time!

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kitty88uk

MelissaLee1 is that so it’s just something that we do nothing wrong with that! πŸ˜†

I’m not that ocd but like things clean haha

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Lynibis

MelissaLee1 Absolutely nothing wrong with that. Too many people don't give a jot about correct literacy and numeracy and checking and rechecking is the way to avoid mistakes.

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Deleted87328

O yes my favourite topic 😁i love cleaning 🧹 🧽 early morning right after my prayer I start my house work after finish my house work ,I take my morning Tea another thing I don’t like someone touch me if there hands wet,we don’t wear outside shoes in also we do have separate flip flops for garden aswell 😁I try my best to keep clean my house but still every morning dust do appear 😳so this is life keep going thanks for this topic πŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ»πŸŒΊ

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MelissaLee1

Queenofdeals786 Explain the wet hands thing please.My hubby had that as well!I used to tease him and say If I was a bond girl exiting water you would have less hesitation perhaps!

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Deleted87328

MelissaLee1 oh😁wet hands mean for example if I’m sitting in the leaving room our kitchen right left side end of the room my hubby after having meal wash his hand in kitchen if he don’t wipe his hand he straight come in try to wipe with my scarf most our Asian mens do 😁which make me irritate if he touch my face with wet hand I do shout with words eeeee your hands wet 😳 then he always rply look they dryπŸ˜πŸ™πŸ»

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MelissaLee1

Queenofdeals786 I sometimes wouldn't dry my hands properly after washing them(but hey they are still clean) and my husband would say..."ooh you're all wet" but I don't quite understand why water should be quite so terrifying.Unless a person is aquaphobic of course.It's only water not acid or excrement after all! Anyone else got any ideas on this one?

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Deleted87328

MelissaLee1 If I’m aquaphobic I shouldn’t use water πŸ€”I love washing that don’t bother me just don’t like someone touch me with there wet hands,I never came out from kitchen or bathroom without drying my hands 😊I don’t know whyπŸ€”

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kitty88uk

Queenofdeals786 haha πŸ˜† thanks for your comments you are so kind 😚

Yeah we don’t wear shoes inside house either we wear slippers πŸ₯Ώ

Tell me about it! Damn dusts everywhere ffs πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

Have to open windows for fresh air and after a few days if don’t wipe windowsill it’s so dirty lol

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MelissaLee1

Queenofdeals786 The mystery continues then lol.

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Deleted87328

kitty88uk Aww thanks 😁nice to read your don’t wear shoes in side too 😊yes this dust is headache πŸ€• 😁earlier I did wiped windows and blinds now free I’ll go in shower in a bit your take care it’s really nice to chat here have a lovely day all in this topic πŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ»

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Deleted87328

MelissaLee1 😁O yes thanksπŸ™πŸ»

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kitty88uk

Queenofdeals786 thanks for the chat haha πŸ˜† hope you have a nice week ahead! It’s a chore to clean 🧼 house 🏑

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kitty88uk

MelissaLee1 I’m the same hands still wet form washing them but they do dry quickly if I move them about haha air dry them lol

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MelissaLee1

kitty88uk Or wipe em on yer T shirt..er guilty I am.

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kitty88uk

MelissaLee1 Lmao 🀣 haha πŸ˜† if I’m wearing an apron while cooking πŸ₯˜ then I wipe hands on that haha

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Pinkspirit

I'm terrible with OCD, l trim the grass at the edges with scissors and sweep fallen leaves up daily, my wardrobe clothes are all colour coordinated, my underwear has to match, l cannot leave a used cup, plate etc in the sink ever, nothing is ever left on the drainer, tins & jars in height and labels all showing at the front in my cupboards, cushions are always plumped on sofa. When l go shopping I'm forever tidying the shelves..l dislike the way l am but l like everything neat and tidy always my home is like a show home rather than a lived in home 😫😫

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MelissaLee1

Pinkspirit Good job I'm not your flat mate .I'd drive yer potty lol.

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Pinkspirit

MelissaLee1 nope you wouldn't, l absolutely love a before and after.... when my sister use to visit me she would go through all my drawers and cupboards and turn everything upside down, mix and match my cushions in my lounge and bedroom, but it never bothered me because as soon as she had left it would be back to how she found it when she came within minutes 🀣

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MelissaLee1

Pinkspirit I need a tidy up person lol.Seriously though I do have some order in my life but I can quite easily leave a few dishes unwashed for the day.My mum loves plumping up cushions as well.My book shelf is quite well ordered. Image

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kitty88uk

Pinkspirit omg 😱 even at shops you have to sort out the shelves too! Oh no πŸ˜… not your job to do so.. lol 😝

Yeah I can’t leave dirty dishes out for long like to wash them after eating

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kitty88uk

MelissaLee1 cute πŸ₯° Belle gif!! Talking about bookcase I have too many books lol 😝 mines all tidied up have so many to read! πŸ˜… I have to use wrapping paper to cover them cause my room is where the sun hits and have had some sun kissed which annoyed me so much!! 😠

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MelissaLee1

kitty88uk I always put them at the front of the shelf (move em forward)to stop the dust collecting there.What happens behind them is another story.

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Pinkspirit

kitty88uk l usually tidy the shelves if l waiting for my friend is choosing her lunch but always at the checkout as l find it boring just standing there, l like to be doing something always

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MelissaLee1

Pinkspirit You're a handy woman to have around.

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Pinkspirit
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kitty88uk

MelissaLee1 lol πŸ˜† haha that means you take forever to actually leave the store? How long do you spend time in there?

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MelissaLee1

kitty88uk I could put down roots in a book shop lol.I would happily camp down for the night.

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kitty88uk

MelissaLee1 lmao 🀣 haha πŸ˜† funny comment when you said you would camp ⛺️ there!

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Jackscot

Pinkspirit, there is nothing wrong with what you do to me. You are very well organised, not like me. I am messy

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suevernon1968

I only have ocd about my colouring books and colouring pencils. The books have to be in order and the pencil crayons in the right slot lol

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kitty88uk

suevernon1968 that’s alright I’m the same with books πŸ“š I have them in alphabetical order haha πŸ˜†

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Pjran

My husband now does the housework. I always notice when there’s a speck of dirt he’s missed, I know I should be thankful he does so much πŸ˜‡

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martinlufc5637

I use to be really bad years ago, not so much now I'm older, I can't do with mess ect...

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kitty88uk

martinlufc5637 oh is that so

I never had a problem when I was younger just now can’t stand less either but I’m not that obsessed with cleaning 🧹

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Jinky67

None of what any of you are describing is OCD. OCD is a horrific debilitating mental condition. It is not about being clean and tidy.

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janphoenix51

Jinky67 ,Yes my partner suffered really bad,had counselling for it, unless you have or know someone suffering you wouldn't understand..

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Jinky67

janphoenix51 one of my online has it, and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. It eventually broke up his marriage. He's been hospitalised I don't know how many times. Counselling for years.

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Jerseydrew

I'd be more ocd but my oh and kids are messy. I've given up fighting a losing battle

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PhilipMarc

Jerseydrew My neighbor's girlfriend or whatever she is cares a lot about cleanliness, yet they wear shoes inside their house. Kind of defeats the point.

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Jerseydrew

PhilipMarc shoes come off when you come in. I've 3 mats yet oh and kids miss them all and leave foot prints every else

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kitty88uk

PhilipMarc lmao 🀣 that’s crazy 😜 really pointless on that point lol

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PhilipMarc

kitty88uk If you come home from your farm/ranch you definitely don't want your home with the mud or manure you've stepped on.

Besides, it's just cleaner to do so.

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kitty88uk

PhilipMarc lol πŸ˜† that’s so true! Ah well to each their own!.. it’s their house they can do whatever they want

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pato

What supermarket are you going to that you get your shoes covered in mud, you might want to change supermarket.

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