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For me, it's putting away my change when I'm at the till and theres another customer waiting 😂

SamGoodship
5 months ago
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Imnotcheap

Not sure if its random but phoning people up, with the exception of my partner and our daughter

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kitty88uk

Imnotcheap this is the opposite but getting cold callers like the other day some guy called asap hung up rang again like wtf 🤬 ignored it

My dad answered the call asking what it’s about duh 🙄

He hung up then next damn day stupid guy called again I yelled to stop called and to eff off lol

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Imnotcheap

kitty88uk I love blocking these, if I think it's a cold caller and I'm not busy I'll answer just to block

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SamGoodship
LD Team

Imnotcheap I think a lot of people struggle with making phone calls too. It's why I wouldn't ever do a call centre job lol.

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Imnotcheap

SamGoodship I did once but people would phone us with orders. I lost job days before I found out manager forgot to tell me

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kitty88uk

Imnotcheap haha yeah I did sign up on website years ago to block these stupid callers but still get them 😠

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Imnotcheap

kitty88uk I block individual numbers on mobile

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tumblespots

I think as time goes on I am becoming a bit agoraphobic. I hate being out in crowds anyway but do try not to leave the house these days unless it is to our friends house or the local shop, places where I feel safe!

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Auntielettie

I hate the thought of not being able to park my car for a hairdressing appointment, I always go too early, never yet had a problem but always panic

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SamGoodship
LD Team

Auntielettie I get that, you worry if it will make you late to your appointment

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martinlufc5637

Finding out that a seller has used Hermes (evri) to deliver my package lol

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Leannexxx

martinlufc5637 agree on that one

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Imnotcheap
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PhilipMarc

martinlufc5637 If you paid for cheap delivery, that's what you're gonna get.

At least it's not Yodel, so it's an improvement.

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Jinky67

Someone I'm not expecting coming to my door.

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jam45

Jinky67 I agree with you. Several times "strangers" have been ringing my doorbell none stop until I answer my front door and say to me "wrong house" or "I am looking for..."

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Jinky67

jam45 I just don't answer the door when I'm not expecting anyone🤣

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jam45

Jinky67 Good for you.

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kitty88uk

jam45 hate these people there was one just yesterday looked out the window after second tapping on door

I said whatever it is not interested

Stupid guy gave a thumbs up like Wtf 🤬

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SamGoodship
LD Team

Jinky67 I've got a RING doorbell now, loads more peace of mind!

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Jinky67

SamGoodship even someone setting that off would annoy me🤣

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kitty88uk

jam45 at this time of the year there are so many of these people

Maybe they are casing houses see if anyone home or not and sad to say they are looking to rob you!

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TheChimp

The DWP

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Leannexxx

TheChimp 🤣🤣 I don't blame you

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MelissaLee1

Unannounced last minute invites that I can't afford to honour.

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JLouM

I need to plan my day what I’m doing where I can access a decent toilet. Hardly any public ones left and I wouldn’t use them anyway unless I know they are well maintained.

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jigsawx3x

JLouM I know that feeling there I plan on my phone where they are and I also plan my route around them

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kitty88uk

JLouM I do this too whenever I need to go out I go through it in my head which shops I should go first and where to get freebies lol 😆

Last Wednesday went to M&S with a mate to pick up free chocolate 🍫 coins 🪙

And just on Wednesday I walked back up there again to pick up boxes of mince pies 🥧 that I got on the last day of the advent calendar

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jigsawx3x

Balloons the anxiety is unreal

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sarahward1975

jigsawx3x omg me too…..I thought I was the only one….the smell the noise everything about them makes me so anxious….my kids think I’m Werid

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jigsawx3x

sarahward1975 so glad I'm not the only one

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kitty88uk

Yeah I’m kinda like that too with counting coins 🪙 but who cares at the end of the day lol 😝

Of course they’d expect someone in front of them will be paying in cash 💷

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Pfs

Memories of being a young fool

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hspexy

Dealing with customer service via the Amazon - have had more issues recently and it’s awkward to navigate to get to chat to an associate. Definitely going downhill

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JLouM

hspexy Yep nightmare. Didn’t really get any help from them at all, just round in circles. Luckily the LD crew here helped me out and got the problem sorted.

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hspexy

JLouM yeh they’ve upped their ‘fobbing off’ tactics, so I’ve had to upped my legal and trading standards jargon. Eventually it does get resolved, but takes time

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Sugarbabe

For me it's doing the car insurance it's a job I hate doing. As we have 3 cars in the family which 2 renew at the same time, it's the stress trying to find the cheapest quotes.

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Glitterandgold

Travelling to unfamiliar places, especially on my own.

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kitty88uk

Glitterandgold ah that’s not a nice feeling

I had this dreadful experience when few years ago had to go to jury duty and all of a sudden they said to have people go to Bradford and I kinda got upset 😭

No idea 🤷🏻‍♀️ it just happened so quick instant reaction..

Never had that before

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Glitterandgold

kitty88uk I would hate that. I will often look up places on Google maps to try & get some bearings before travelling on my own.

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kitty88uk

Glitterandgold yeah it wasn’t nice! 🥺 I do that too go on Google maps and street view lol like it’s good to be prepared

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Pjran

Being invited to a gathering that I’m not keen to go. Then having to decline and being made to feel unsociable.

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kitty88uk

Pjran oh sorry 😞 to hear about this

It’s not a great feeling!!..

People shouldn’t judge others as you don’t know what they are going through..

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TiaTia

When friends ask to meet up for coffee and want me to choose the place and time, if they just said where and when i'd be fine.

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kitty88uk

TiaTia oh dear 😅 sounds like a hassle if they do that all the time! I agree with you it’s best to agree on a time and place

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Pinkspirit

I get anxiety when speaking on the phone to my bank, but when a cold caller calls l pretend l cannot hear them at my end of the receiver..works a dream as they soon hang up...( Hello!, sorry l cannot hear you, can you hear me?? Ha ha

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jam45

Pinkspirit Brilliant! I never thought of doing this. Normally I just put the phone down.

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Emerge11

Going to a Job Interview. That does my head In. They judge you by what you look like In my opinion and not by your experience, then you dont hear back from them. Annoying.

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KAW18

For me it's most things. Going shopping gives me alot of anxiety has I suffer with Agoraphobia. So yes like you paying for shopping and packing it makes me anxious if there's a queue of people. But then random things like I can't have two sauces together when having food. I mean like fried egg with ketchup! Why would anyone do that? I watch cooking programs and can't figure out why any one would eat any of the food. Too many flavours and textures together. I like plain and simple which makes it difficult to eat because most things have too many ingredients. There's lots of spicy foods. You even get chilli in chocolate now WHY? Onion is another thing it's in everything I don't like it. Winds me!

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kitty88uk

KAW18 sounds very stressful for you! Take care of yourself and try not to get too anxious it’s not good for your health!

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