What to Wear to a Wedding?
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Ive got a wedding in 2 weeks and i dont know what to wear
Im currently in the process of getting a formal diagnosis of asd (aspergers). I hate social events especially when you have to dress up so i normally wouldnt go but my wife is bridesmaid and its really important to her that i go. Clothes are a massive issue to me and i can only wear certain things because of the feel of them, how they fit and because i have obsessions. At the moment i have an obsession with vans and i have 4 pairs of the same shoe (2 are brand new for back ups)
I mostly wear mens clothes as their baggier, the only thing i can wear fitted is trousers. I will not wear girly clothes so a dress is a definate no, but i wont wear a shirt or suit either.
Because i wear the same style all the time its hard for me to change what i wear and im worried about what other people will think. I mean i cant rock up to a wedding wearing tshirt and jeans. I need something im comfortable in because im going to be stressed enough around people, if im not comfortable then i will have a meltdown and end up being ill. My wife has mentioned a jumpsuit but i think its just a tad too girly.
I have bought smart grey cropped fitted trousers with like a cheque pattern that go with a pair of vans. It looks smart with a plain black vans tshirt but i cant wear a tshirt to a wedding can i. Im legit struggling and im just at the point where i want to cancel but i cant. To make matters worse my wife is spending the night before the wedding away from me because she Is bridesmaid, so even getting ready on the day without her is going to be a massive struggle. I probably sound like a crazy person Can anyone think of something to wear that isnt going to draw attention to me looking different to i usually do so that people arent like ‘She looks girly’ or ’why is she wearing mens clothes’
Sorry for the rambling i usually try to keep these stupid struggles to myself
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