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Swingers Club Should It Be Banned

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I only found out before Christmas that there was a gentleman club near me and it's quite popular me I think it's wrong in every level and i seen

metro.co.uk/2024/01/22/ex-swingers-speak-scary-websites-suffering-abuse-20153660/?ico=mosaic_home

Leannexxx
3 months ago
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As long as it's consensual swinging, I see no reason why it should be banned. Each to their own 🙂

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DeBunny

It's not for us, to me your partner is your partner and the physical relationship is between the two of you in private. But that is different in other relationships and they can do as they please, other people's sex lives aren't any of my concern.

It isn't against the law in the UK, I know some other countries it is to have sex outside of marriage etc.

The couple who were in the article were supposedly swinging for 10 years, they have a bee in their bonnet and are upset, quite rightly, on how people have treated them for the way they look. This would be on any site, social media sites, forums, apps etc. I believe then maybe things should be monitored better, but you can't ban everything just because of nasty people. It doesn't sound like these people were put in any danger (I know how horrific mental abuse must be though!) but I'm sure there are some shocking stories about people who are swingers and put in awful situations, they might not even make it out alive but that is the case for other apps and websites, even in real life. (Not to scare people!) It is also up to them to think about who they go home with or who they go off with.

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Leannexxx

DeBunny I'm the same not bothered what people do but for me I think it's wrong for any relationship

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jms19

I think as long as it’s keep behind closed doors and isn’t attracting bad people, then i see no issue. Everyone involved is consenting adults so they can make their own choices.

However if there was issues associated with it or was bad for children in the area i would definitely be against it

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Leannexxx

jms19 well people didn't know in the area what it was gonna be it's been there for a while now

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Lynibis

I will never understand how some people's brains work. If you are both agreeable to do the most intimate thing with strangers how on earth can you love each other? I think too many people push boundaries for no good reason other than shock value or self gratification. But then deviance has been around as long as mankind and as others have said, as long as it's legal and not harming anyone...........

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Jerseydrew

Not my monkey not my circus. To get honest we've doggers that hang out in carparks and beauty spots where I am. As in flash the head lights once to watch or twice to join in

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Leannexxx

Jerseydrew oh yeah we have doggers down here too there everywhere 🤣

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TheChimp

I had to take the Pampas Grass out from the front garden because it's supposed to be a sign that it's a swingers house.

It was there for a good 10 years before I found out. I was wondering why some people passing by were being a bit friendly 🤔

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Sugarbabe

TheChimp

I didn’t know that, quite a few houses near me have pampas grass in their gardens. I will smirk every time I walk pass their house. 😉

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suevernon1968

TheChimp I’m going to chuckle every time i see pampas grass in someone’s front garden now lol

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heatherduthie

TheChimp hahaha. Mr chimp. Again you make me laugh. Well that’s news to me. I had pampas grass in my garden for 20 years. Only took it out during lockdown. I never had any unwanted couples knocking on my door 😂😂😂😂

To each their own In my opinion it doesn’t bother me what other people get up to

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martinlufc5637

I do think it's kind of gringy wanting to share your partner with multiple men or women, it's not for us, each to their own I guess

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MandyJones1

I think every one to there own

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David2009

Nobody else's business just because you don't understand someone's relationship doesn't mean they don't love each other different strokes for different folks

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