Are U a Person Who Sulks after an Argument or Someone Who Always Makes up
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ive been ill most of wee and when im like this i tend to argue with hubby, and if hes poorly hes touchy too ... difference is hes a sulker and i just wanna make up and forget it ... i detesl sulkers.. he can go on for days and then i start to get annoyed and upset ... have your say n then move on !!
Yes my grandad taught me to never go to bed on an argument, so I always want to make up. It's so important to make up again the same day else it's damaging to the relationship and to both people's emotional health. A little bit of space to think and then a cuddle and an apology is best 
Holding grudges is no good for anyone.
It's never too late to work on things like that! It must be soul destroying to live with someone who sulks for days,unless you live alone of course, but then you wouldn't sulk and not speak to yourself lol.
Honestly .... i would say i am a bit of a sulker. Especially when i am ill because i tend to feel sorry for myself and i get fed up. But i do realise later how much of a cow i have been and i apologise lol.
An angry wife... no thank you!
I always make up first, and fast. I like the kissing and cuddling part! 
I think it is a form of emotional abuse to not speak to a supposed loved one for days on end. It's withdrawing yourself from the relationship to deliberately hurt and upset. It is fine to step aside for an hour or two to be calm and think things through but if you really love someone why would you want to do something unloving? After a lifetime in this world I truly believe that lots of arguments are over silly things, if they are serious and making one or both unhappy it is probably better to call time.
We don't really argue, if we do it is about unimportant stuff that doesn't actually matter. But neither of us is a sulker. We say what we need to say, apologise and move on.
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